1.寻求意见

    1 ）聊聊男女关系：

    "I need a girl's opinion about something I was just discussing with
a friend who broke up with his girlfriend. He made out with another woman
straight after his relationship break up. Is he a jerk？"

    "I want a woman's perspective on this. I was just talking a friend
who had broken up and his girlfriend keeps calling. Why does she do it？

    "

    女人们总是乐于分享自己对于男女关系问题的看法，因此这类问题是向女孩
发起谈话的好工具。

    2 ）问些争议话题：

    "Who lies more： men or women ？"

    "Is it wrong to break up with a text message？"

    如果你向一群女人抛出这样的容易引起争议的话题，那你就可以等着看她们
两眼放光、叽叽喳喳没完没了了。

    2.玩笑调侃

    1 ）适当运用搭讪语：

    "I play the field ， and it looks like I just hit a home run with
you."

    （顺便来学两个习语：play the field意为“跟很多人交往，与很多人发生
感情关系”；home run是全垒打的意思，引申为大获全胜，hit a home run就是
说“做某事非常成功”。）

    "You're like a dictionary ， you add meaning to my life ！"

    "Do you have a sunburn， or are you always this hot ？"

    “搭讪语”就是那些故意说出来引起异性注意的话，说得难听点有些类似
“泡妞语”，但是运用得当的话也是发起谈话的好办法。当然必须注意要让女孩
知道你是在开玩笑，否则可是很有挑逗的意味，会被认为是在耍流氓哒！

    2 ）轻描淡写开玩笑：

    "Nice boots. Do you have your horse parked outside？" （horse boots
：马护腿）

    "Nice shoes. They look comfortable."（这句小编不理解的说……难道是
指看上去舒服其实穿着不舒服？求高手解答！）

    "Nice top （上衣）。 My grandma has one."

    轻微地说些嘲弄的话可以引起女孩发笑，之后你就等着被她反击吧！

    3 ）问上一句，"Are you friendly ？" 记得配合上怀疑的眼光。然后，"Good，
I'll talk to you."放心吧，没有女孩会对你说“不”的！