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社交场合不适合问的八个问题

来源：育路外语考试频道发布时间：2008-11-04

You've put on weight.
　　Avoid pointing out that someone is fat or making any comments about weight, unless you're trying to be rude. This is often a sensitive issue, and remarks such as "You're getting fat" are incredibly insulting.
　　避免指出某人很胖或对体重发表意见，除非你试图用粗鲁的方式对待别人。谈论体重是非常敏感的话题，而类似"You're getting fat"评论是非常之粗鲁且侮辱人的。
　　Oh you're pregnant!
　　Unless it's really obvious, make it a point not to bring this up. If you happen to be mistaken, you have managed to let out a big insult. See above.
　　除非这很明显，否则就没有必要故意提起这事。如果你说错了的话，可能就会让对方感到受辱。
　　Is this your daughter?
　　Well, what if she happens to be his girlfriend? Avoid assuming relationships and instead wait to be introduced, or be bold and introduce yourself.
　　但是，如果她恰巧是他的女朋友怎么办呢？避免对对方关系的任何猜测，而是等待对方介绍，或是大胆的介绍自己。
　　Your sister is so much prettier than you.
　　While this may seem like a harmless comment in some cultures, it can hurt the feelings of the person you're talking to. Instead, leave out the comparisons and just mention that their sister is pretty.
　　在一些文化传统中这也许是没有任何问题的，但这可能会伤害你正在与之谈话的人。不要进行比较，只是提到他的姐姐非常漂亮就可以了。
That color doesn't suit you.
　　Negative talk about appearances may ruin someone's evening – especially if they've spent a lot on their outfit. Try making someone's day, instead, by complimenting them on an article of clothing or an accessory you do like!
　　对某人外表否定的评论可能会破坏整个夜晚的气氛，特别是他们已经在着装上花费了很多心血。通过赞赏你喜欢的一件衣服或饰品，而试着让别人感到非常愉快。
　　How much money do you make?
　　While this isn't insulting, it's too personal and can leave someone in an awkward position. It's not customary in many places to talk about money or salary.
　　这可能并不是侮辱，然而却是能让人尴尬的私人话题。在许多地方谈论钱或薪水都是不和时宜的。
　　You look sick.
　　Said bluntly, this can definitely be insulting. If someone really does look like they're not feeling well, you can ask, "Are you feeling ok?"
　　如果这么直接说的话，可能会变成一种侮辱了。如果某人的确看起来不太健康，你可以问，"Are you feeling ok?"
　　How old are you?
　　Age is a sensitive issue for many, and quite a few people are unwilling to reveal theirs. Stay away from asking this question – unless you're chatting with a 6-year-old. They're always happy to share their age!
　　对许多人来说，年龄是敏感的话题，很多人不愿透露他们的具体年龄。不要问这样的问题－除非你是和一个6岁的小孩在谈话。他们可愿意告诉别人年龄了！
　　The overall message is don't get too personal or be too negative. In social situations, and even all the time, it's wise to follow the instructions of a popular English proverb: "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."
　　总之话题不要太私人化或否定。在社交场合，甚至在所有的场合，能按照一句英国流行的谚语做是非常得体聪明的："If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."

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